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Post by 𓆩❤︎𓆪 brooklyn 𓆩❤︎𓆪 on Jun 29, 2021 10:01:17 GMT
hii guys, would appreciate if anyone responded I need some advice lol so basically recently I have been sneaking out with this guy for fun and to just chill, dw nothing between us. I have just found out that one of my close friends has actually liked him for a while. I wanted to be open so I talked to her about it and how I have been seeing him because I would never want to lie to her. Her response was calm and she said that she didn't follow the "girl code" which is you are not allowed to like or date one of your friends likes/ed or has dated. Then today she texted me wanting to clear things up and I told her that everything that I had already told her was everything that was going on. But now our little friend group is a bit awkward. I mean I totally understand. If one of my friends liked a guy a this other girl was "going after him" I would be protected. Anyways, I just dont know what to do cause I love my bestie but I also enjoy hanging out with that guys and talking bout deep stuff with him. I would always choose my friends over everyone but its just nice to have someone to talk to. Soz for the lil rant, I just need some opinions on this. Lots of love x
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Post by Xx mia xX on Jul 1, 2021 20:32:37 GMT
hey! first I think you did the right thing by talking to your friend about it, it's always WAY better to be honest with friends even if it makes things awkward for a minute. so props for that and hopefully you and your friend keep talking openly about how you feel.
Second, do you like this guy? and/or does he like you? if you are simply just friends then it's probably totally fine to keep hanging but if there is something more THEN it could possibly hurt your friend even though she said she's okay. If there is something between this guy and you it might be a good idea to cool off with him for a little while, you prob don't have to cut him off completely but maybe just hang out less until you and your friend are in a better place with each other! I don't know all the details but it seems like you're handling this in a mature and compassionate way already , hope this helps xoxo <3
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Post by 🌺 𝒜𝓃𝑔𝒾𝑒 🌺 on Jul 8, 2021 3:02:13 GMT
if you like hanging out with him and talking to him then I think it's good, just as long as nothing happens you know, and it's a friends relationship. your friend should be cool with it. I agree with mia, you're handling this well, she gives good advice haha.
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Sept 6, 2021 11:08:46 GMT
Post by 𓆩❤︎𓆪 brooklyn 𓆩❤︎𓆪 on Sept 6, 2021 11:08:46 GMT
This aged well:(
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